My mother likes to remind me that I was born in the late afternoon on Mothering Sunday and chastises me still (at very nearly 46) for keeping her waiting. All day! Well back in the day there wasn’t much on the telly box and maybe I wanted to appear in time for a nice cup of the and a sandwich spread samwich! So arrive I did and as well as having my official birthday I also feel that I own a little bit of Mothering Sunday as well!
The lovely children of the house have been asking me what I would like for my birthday and I have to admit I am a little bit stuck between deciding what I would quite like and what I really need. So far I have come up with a watch and a docking station/charging/alarm clock combo but there are some things that I do like and I am sure that some of these ideas could be on any mother’s list.
I could really do with a new blender as mine is groaning under the weight of hearty soups I have recently been making, a whizzer or chopper would cut down on the time I chop but would involve more washing up and I would probably lose the whizzy bit so I will shelve those ideas for another time. Besides Big Welsh has a birthday in a few months and maybe he would like them? The wok I bought him for Christmas was a great success after all!
Mook asked whether I would like some flowers from Georgie, well yes of course! Doesn’t everyone want flowers on their birthday? I particularly like Georgie’s creations because she grows most of them herself, Common Farm Flowers is a small British business with a big heart and I do like to support my friends.
Having just spent the evening at Nirvana Spa with my stepsister as an early birthday treat I would thoroughly enjoy a day of pampering and relaxing, there are so many treatments to chose from and to be honest who wouldn’t want to float around all day in a nice big bath robe wondering which lounger to lie on!
I’m not really a bag person. I’ve yet to find a bag that I will actually use and use and use but I am rather partial to the bags at Pioneros and Cloudberry who I found via Country Wives. My Mulberry purse is now 15 years old and is looking tired so maybe a new purse? But saying that I do have a lovely green Ted Baker one with bobbles somewhere and I can’t for the life of me remember where it is and it does contain my Cath Kidston family and friends discount card so I must make an effort to find it as I am rather partial to the bedding!
Notebooks are also another favourite of mine and my very clever crochet friend Prettybea has sent me some notebooks from Bread and Jam which I love, Katherina from Ella’s Kitchen Company gave me a notebook which I also love and I do enjoy perusing stationery companies.
Jewellery is always a nice gift, I particularly like Rococo in Wokingham and often nip in to see Juliette and ooh and aah over the displays. Despite having my ears pierced years ago I don’t wear earrings much but I do like the simple ones from JojoJewellery.
Sending a food gift is always a winner! I am more than partial to Gower Cottage Brownies, to be honest I don’t know anyone who isn’t – they’ve just not found them yet. Kate is THE Brownie Queen. Fact. As it’s mother’s day the rule is that the mother should be treated to mugs of coffee at regular intervals to go with said brownies.
Then maybe a little glass of something with a fizz. Last year Tiffinie came over for a fundraiser for The Brain Tumour Charity and HeadSmart and we sipped a dash of her Wiltshire Liqueur Blood Orange with Prosecco in the garden.
Or how about a fizzy red, yes you read it right fizzy red, I like the Vultu from Zotta Deli.
I’m very fond of the Gordon Castle Gin and Angus has suggested mixing it with Fever Tree tonic – what’s not to love?
I love giving books to people and equally love being given books. As a supporter of small local independent book sellers I don’t mind being given a book token so I can go and choose a book myself. I am not averse to vouchers as they are such a convenient gift to send and can bring hours of pleasure perusing and choosing what you would really like.
Books really are my thing and when I see a book I remember where I was when I was reading it. Another way to hold memories is with a Treasure Pod from the amazing Jane Rafter. I have one with a birth stones and charms. What would you choose?
Smellies and candles are another firm favourite and the world is full of gorgeousness. I love Jo Malone MBE’s new range Jo Loves and the fragrance discovery gift experience is an ideal gift, it is easily wrapped up and can be put in a pretty padded envelope from Hunter Gatherer. I was fortunate to have facials over the years from Tracey Malone who started her own business called Lubatti which has the most glorious bath oils and skincare range. Last year I found Noble Isle who have a delicious range of products that I am also fond of.
Being a spring baby I obviously feel the need for people to wrap up so have given a number of friends bobble hats from Forage Somerset as well as Powder gloves available from Ty Cariad in Brecon.
Of course keeping hands warm also looks after hands so I use Niki’s Warming Balm which is quite frankly gorgeous smelling and warming.
But what I love most about Mother’s Day and my birthday is that I get to spend it with the most precious people in my life
and I know that come what may I will always be there for them, laughing with them
and even though I might embarrass them
I will always love them and I will always be their Mummy.